Oh those times are upon us.
High school.
Dances.
Banquets.
Dates.
It has come pretty quickly!
I've thought about those times, of course,
but it seemed far away.
Tyler's choir banquet is coming up and it's quite an affair!
I've thought about banquet, because I'll be helping at it,
but I surely did not think about Tyler having a date!
A date!
DATE!
So, when he told me who he wanted to invite, I was initially shocked because...
well... I was not prepared for this!
So when I got over the thought of, "my baby boy wants to ask a girl to the choir banquet and that would mean it's a DATE!",
I was happy.
I knew the girl.
They go to church together.
She's in one of the all girls choir at school.
They're really good friends.
Great choice!
Then, the time came for how and when to ask her.
He first asked her older sister to ask her parents if she would be allowed to go.
They are freshmen after all and this is a date.
They said yes.
These days, it's all about the presentation of asking.
And, it should be!
I asked my friend Kathy to make cookies.
Perfect maroon and white music notes and circles with edible glitter cookies!
Next, there was ME TAKING TYLER TO HER HOUSE!
It would be a surprise to her, but her sister and parents knew.
He was so calm.
Me? Not so much!
I told him to tell me when to come to the door so I could snap at least one picture.
I thought he'd say no, or at least be hesitant.
I would try to understand.
Then, the moment he was getting out of the car, he looked at me.
He was nervous.
He said, "Mom, come with me!"
My heart began to melt.
He did so good and was just too cute!
She was so surprised!
She said YES!
The whole family loved the cookies!
I tried really hard not to be embarrassing, I may have failed.
Her mom was the same way though.
Tyler was happy with how it all turned out.
Me too.
I was so thankful I got to be involved in this sweet moment.
So, milestone one, done!
Next, the actual date, which isn't for a while.